Lifestyle...much money or comfortable living

I remember when I was in college, I and friend always mention about a good career. It means that we will get a good salary, live as a wealthy people. We discussed about which we prefer, make a large amount of money or satisfied to get comfortable living only.

If we have a large of money, we can buy anything that we want. Many thing that just only dream, such as traveling around the world, have a big house, a new model car, have clothes and bag from famous brand and many more high standard living will be so easy. The most important, we could send our kids to the best school, so they could have the best education. Beside that, when we have a lot of money we can share our wealth to many charities, it will help other much more.


In contrast, if we choose comfortable living, we will have less than wealthy person. But it have a good side too, because comfortable living need less effort in working, that we could spend more for a good quality of life. We have more time to enjoy our lives while less pressure in work, and we still have a time to spend with family. Less stress will lead a good health for us, and combine with time with family, it will make our lives more happy. Just imagine, we could go home in the evening, go to swimming pool with kids, prepare a healthy dinner and share about many things that happen during the day. These all things will be difficult to have if we busy in work to get some extra more money.

If I could choose, I mostly prefer comfortable living rather than make a large amout of money. There will be many valuable things in life more than money, and I don't want to miss the time see my kids grow up and feel their bonding to me. I think my kids will be more happy if I could spend my time playing or buy them some simple things, rather than give them much money but I were not with them all the time.

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Will I lose my best friend?

We always need friend in life, and then we finally found our best friend, when we met someone who care, understand and accept us with sincere feeling, no matter with many of our weakness.
That's happen on me, I found 2 best friend in life, I share manything wit them laugh together, support each other ang give care to them. But today... I just feel I finally will lose one of them, honestly feeling break up inside.

A friend that I met here, when we are come to this country as foreigner, not much friend we have. Even we seldom meet physically but we talked a lot through net. Twice a day we said hi, talked about manything, shared joked, and when one of us got in to problem, we supported each other. But there is time to meet, there is time to say good bye. Finally my friend complete study and go back to the country origin. My Friend promise me nothing will change, will always contact me everday even a few minutes.

That time i believe, after went back for a month I still receive mail or chat at least once a day, even only 15-20 minutes. Then the following month it reduces once on 2-3 days. I tried to sent short message by mail, but sometimes i got no reply. And lately not on 2-3 days but 4 days with only words "hi, how r u, hope everything ok with u", no personal and freindly message anymore.
Become worst the last month that contact me only twice, no mail reply.

Could someone change easily? Many memories gone, and pretend nothing happen. I feel it will be hard to have a best friend again, if then will end up just like that. I thought I never change still the same, never judge my friend, even when I sent mail without reply, i try to use cherish words. I pretend nothing happen between us, but this I got. Will I lose my best friend?

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When There Was Me And You lyrics

It's funny when you find yourself
Looking from the outside
I'm standing here but all I want
Is to be over there
Why did I let myself believe
Miracles could happen
Cause now I have to pretend
That I don't really care

I thought you were my fairytale
A dream when I'm not sleeping
A wish upon a star
Thats coming true
But everybody else could tell
That I confused my feelings with the truth
When there was me and you

I swore I knew the melody
That I heard you singing
And when you smiled
You made me feel
Like I could sing along
But then you went and changed the words
Now my heart is empty
I'm only left with used-to-be's
And once upon a song

Now I know your not a fairytale
And dreams were meant for sleeping
And wishes on a star
Just don't come true
Cause now even I can tell
That I confused my feelings with the truth
Cause I liked the view
When there was me and you

I can't believe that
I could be so blind
It's like you were floating
While I was falling
And I didn't mind

Cause I liked the view
Thought you felt it too
When there was me and you


I just feel funny of my self like this song.. still feeling so blue. I hope I can stand up and smile freely again same with the time before I know you.

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Come back

It Has been a long time not make a post in this blog. When I make this blog and write it I have a friend that always accompany me. We talked at night, smile and laugh, sometime he gave me inspiration to write, from our conversation, from our misunderstanding.. but now all are different.

He had back to his country, busy with other thing in his life, I couldn't talk a lot with him. A year have a close friendship and then disappear, make me don't want to touch this blog. Even now he only replied my mail in one words (I write a long mail hiks) but I want to remember all of sweet memories that we have

I know someday, sometime.. I will survive, with or without him. I just need time to cure my broken heart even its already 4 months and still hurt. And I understand... its not a fairy tale, it just one of my nice dream in my sleep on the night. N when I wake up all just disappear.
Any way, if u come pass by.. I just want to thank for all your kindness (but I think u wont remember this website again :))
So I come back.. I want to have my smile again, my power again

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Feeling Sad

Sadness is a feeling — it's one of the many normal human emotions, or moods, we all have. Sadness is the emotion people feel when they've lost something important,
or when they have been disappointed about something, or when something sad has happened to them or to someone else. When they're lonely, people often feel sad.Sadness makes you feel like crying, and sometimes the tears are hard to stop. Crying often makes you feel better.

When Is it naturally to feel sad?
It can come once in a while. So many things happen in our life can make we sad. Mostly they occurred because a loss or separation, disappointment, change.
Losing someone who close to u will be the most common cause of sadness. Death, break up, divorce can bring sad feeling for weeks, months even year. Sometime sadness make you failed to think straight because you cant get off your mind from your loss


Changes that involve something or someone example your close friend move to other place that will make you cant contact her easily. Or maybe changing school, place of work sometimes can make you feel sad too

Disappointments like losing a game you hoped to win, getting a poor grade, or not being invited to a party can cause sadness. Sadness is a natural reaction to those things.

Relationships bring happiness and fun much of the time. But tension or conflict in important relationships, or relationships that break up, can cause sadness, too. People often feel sad when all is not right between them and their loved ones,
or when they get criticized or yelled at a lot.

When you are feel so sad, just go outside and do any activities that can catch your attention. Even cant help to forget all things but it can help you out a little and release your burden

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Will only say take care...

How will you feel if your best friend will move to other country? Don't know when can meet her again. I bet you will very sad. I am in this condition right now, so really I have no energy to do anything. I just want to have time machine and draw my time back, so I can spent more time with her.
This a poem that I sent to my best friend after she said "its hard to say goodbye"

Will miss u

the question was
what would I do if you go back to your country
And now it's time to find out
I know it part of life come and go
I will really trully miss you
as I am sure everyone will

Many thanks for constans support
for friendship that you give
for courage to go on
to manage days and stay strong

I know will not easy to see u online
as we are in different time zone
Only wish you good luck
So, let's just say "take care",
Because "goodbye" seems too final.
Maybe we'll see you again someday
Remembering you always with a smile!

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When you are so far apart.... long distance relationship

In this age of internet, chat room sometimes you find someone you love there, but the problems come when you realize how far distance betwen you and your love one. It will be a hard relationship, because when you need your soulmate beside, he is not there. Human beings crave physical affection. People miss the other person's smile, eye contact, scent, touch, kiss, touch, and most aspects of physical intimacy. No matter how much a couple tries, physical interaction cannot be replaced by a phone call, letter or cyber anything

It will be harder when not only distance but different timezone too. You cant match the exact time to communicate. You must arrange time for rest, work and when you can have intimate times to talk.

But since love sometimes you cant control, so just try many ways to make it work.

* communicate in some way everyday
Since you wont be seeing each other, it's important to establish and maintain an emotional connection. Not always long or in-dept relationship, but just teel him/her your little problem and ask for advice. Send message via messenger or email is good but be careful sometimes written language can increase possibility of misunderstanding. U can use webcam to interact with your mate, with that you can see your mate expression and smile. It can reduce your burden from missing him or her to much.Send her/him short good night, good morning message or little love notes just to express how you care about him/her

*Make an agreement with your mate how many times you will contact him/her for a week, so one of you not feel abandoned by other. If you can meet your promise just send a massage to explain why. Be prepared to be flexible and less demanding.

*NEVER argue over e-mail and try not to argue over the phone either. If it happen try to solve it carefully.

* Avoid jealousy and be trusting One of the easiest ways to destroy a perfectly healthy relationship is to poison it with jealousy and drama. When you start a long distance relationship you must be realistic of the difficulties ahead. You should approach the trust issue in a long distance relationship the same way as you would in a normal relationship. If there is no indication or evidence of cheating, it is most likely not happening. Don't fall in the trap to interrogate your partner every time he/she decides to go out for a drink with people you haven't met or he/she didn't get back to you right away when you called and left a message

*Know when to say good-bye. While this is tough in any relationship, this can be especially hard over long distances. When communication becomes one-sided or sparse for too long and for no apparent reason, when arguments (yes, you'll have them) become too frequent, when the whole thing just seems like more trouble than it's worth, it's time to re-evaluate the relationship.
You have to remember that for a healthy relationship, no matter how far or close, you must be willing to let go.

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Happy Mothers Day

Mom... how I miss you now
Since I was here thousand miles away
I cant see your smile
only can hear your voice
it make me miss u so much always

Sometimes I just want to back
at the time I was a child
always saw you around
can touched and hold you always
when I was in tear

Mom.... I love you so much
I was lucky have you as my mom
and I always proud of you mom

To all moms in the world... Happy Mothers day .. always share love for every kid in the world and make them become a warm heart person.. make the world in peace always..

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Top entrecard dropper for April 2009

This April was my first month to join Entrecard, even so manythings hapend in Entrecard, but I love to join Entrcards community, here I can find many interseting blog easily. Thanks a lot for my 10 Entrecard dropper hope I always can see you around.
My top 10 entrecard dropper
1. Creating a Better World
2. DJ Tammy Squels
3. The Maiden Testimony
4. GHOSTING MIRANDA
5. Monkey Arcade
6. Losing Weight Intentionally
7. My Heart Voice
8. TastyThoughts
9. Femmepower
10. Grandmother's Patternbook

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Let the stress work over you

One of big problem in our life when we feel life is stress full enough, sometimes we feel no way to run. But do you know stress make our life more colorfull and exciting, but I am agree too if to much stress will seriously affect our physical and mental.Ok thats best way let the stress work over you not against you.

Sometimes when we face things that always make we feel stress then we will avoid to do it, believe me it wont solve your problem because only will gave you another new problem. Just learning how to handle it, because stress come from our mind. Thing that make we stress sometimes will be an enjoyable things for other. So what we do to handle our stress?

** Talk.. talk.. talk. Dont keep your problem, find someone who you can trust, and you can discuss with without judging or pressing you with
their poin of view

**Discover what you need to feel good and get your need. another wayfind an interest, hobby or activity where you feel in charge and call the shots.
If you really feel out of control, don't stay silent and alone! Seek guidance from someone who is qualified to help you get through the obstacles, and move forward again.
** Don't overhelm yourself, trying to handle many works. Try to delegate and say no without feeling guilty
** Escape your problem for a while, doing something different, or go to some interesting place just make yourself relax. Remember you have a right to do it.
**Know your limits. If a problem is beyond your control and cannot be changed at the moment, don't fight the situation. Learn to accept what is-for now-until such time when you can change it
**Take care of yourself. You are special. Get enough rest and eat well. If you are irritable and tense from lack of sleep or
if you are not eating correctly, you will have less ability to deal with stressful situations.
**Learn to be Happy. When you feel sad and stress just remember the happy thing that you ever had. Count His Blessing, you have many happiness around you
**Think that U must not always right. Just accept if others have another idea, dont make a fight, just build an understanding and make both of you comfortable with this situation
** Dont be shy to cry, crying can move your burden, and prevent a headache or other physical consequence. Take a deep breath and try to release your tension
** Spend time with family and friends for love and support. Don't be afraid to enjoy yourself! Appreciate friendship and let others know you care about them, too. Love may not conquer all, but it's a great start!
There is still many way to heal your stress, just find the best way for you but avoid to use drugs to release your stress. They should be taken :only on the advice of your doctor.

Picture from Free Digital Photos

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Fashion Week begin....

Fashion week begin, just started from 15 April to 20 April in Garden and 18-26 April in Mid Valley Megamall. Yearly event that can attract more costumer to go for shopping after saw the model walk in the run away. And nicely they offer a good price for all new collection up to 20% off. Its a great bargain isn't it.

Watching fashion show its really nice, at least you will know fashion trend now and sure it give you some clue how to dress up your self in sporty, chic, casual or elegant. It will give you many idea to make yourself pretty and trendy. But if you see the models don't mess ur self ok, they absolutely life to looks beautiful slim and energetic on the stage.


Just take positive side, first, try to have healthy diet to slim, exercise everyday so you will stay healthy and have many energy, so you will looks pretty indeed in your healthy body. And try to put a nice smile in face.
Here is some picture in the stage...


If you have a plan to renew your clothes, just grab this opportunity. This offer will be end at 26 April. There are many participants that join this event. But always remember to shopping wisely. Happy shopping anyone...

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Susan Boyle -British Got Talent 2009

I just saw this Video on You tube, Susan Boyle first performing in British talent 2009, really amazing. Looks like have a dreaming, when heard she is singing I dreamed a dream. She is 47 years old, something really good comes along...and it may not always be in the package we expect.

You open youtube to see and listen her amazing, fantastic, unbelievable voice, such a beautiful voice that can stir many emotions.. visit http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9lp0IWv8QZY#
I bet you become speechless when hear her voice..


She gave women an inspiration, no matter how old we are, we can still have a dream, and we still have a change to reach our dream. Never ever stop dreaming, and never ever stop to try to reach our dream, because our live is too precious without doing nothing. Believe that someday, if we tr hard we will find away to prove the world about our dreams. LETS HAVE A DREAM AND MAKE IT COME TRUE

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Silent

I am standing here
in a cold and breeze air
without any sound around
under the cloudy sky

I choose to stay here
keep silent keep quiet
looks like no life sign

just for waiting for you
just for remembering you
every single words that ever make me happy

I choose this silent place
I hope i will not hear anything again
as you stop to embrace me with your words

Picture take in Pangkor Island, 2008

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Anti Aging Diet - Diet to make you look younger

Do u want too look younger than your age, even your age now are 40 but still looks alike 27 years lady. Thinking about have plastic surgery or botox? But do you know aging process are something that you can handle it?

The food you are eat make a huge impact on your body. All foods fit into three categories: pro-inflammatory, neutral, or anti-inflammatory. You can help to slow aging at the cellular level by choosing foods that are anti-inflammatory and rich in antioxidants such as cold-water fish and richly colored fruits and vegetables.

Moores suggests adding these foods and beverages into your eating plan for good health and to reduce the signs of aging:

* Fish.
eat twice weekly, especially the fatty kind that is rich in omega-3 fatty acids. This is a powerful anti-inflammatory food that offers a multitude of health benefits.


* Fruits and vegetables
are powerhouses of antioxidants. Aim for a variety of colorful produce. Enjoy at least 5 servings per day for the maximum benefits.
abbage, cauliflower, broccoli, kale, turnip, brussels sprouts, radish and watercress. This vegetables assist the body in its fight against toxins and cancer
Berries All black and blue berries such as blackberries, blueberries, blackcurrants and black grapes contain phytochemicals known as flavonoids-powerful antioxidants which help to protect the body against damage caused by free radicals and aging.
Watermelon:
Both the flesh and seeds of the watermelon are nutritious so try blending them together in a food processor and drinking as a juice. The flesh contain vitamin A, B and C ; the seeds contain selenium, essential fats, zinc and vitamin E, all of which help against free radical damage and aging

* Whole grains
provide soluble fiber to help lower blood cholesterol levels, and also have phytonutrient content equal to any fruit or vegetable. Strive for at least 3 daily servings.

* Yogurt
has all the benefits of dairy foods, plus probiotics that help add healthy bacteria to the intestines. Moores recommends eating a yogurt with active cultures as one of your 3 dairy servings each day.

* Nuts
are a great source of B vitamins that are good for your heart and your brain. The healthy fats in nuts benefit the elastin and collagen in skin, helping to maintaining skin's structure and keep it resilient. Small portions are advised, as nuts are high in calories.Most varieties of nuts are good sources of minerals, particularly walnuts and brazi nuts. Walnuts, although high in calories, are rich in potassium, magnesium, iron, zinc, copper and selenium.

*Soya:
Menopausal women might find that soya helps to maintain oestrogen levels. Soya may alleviate menopausal hot flush and protect against Alzheimer's disease, osteoporosis and heart disease.

* Ginger:
This spicy root can boost the digestive and circulatory systems, which can be useful for older people. Ginger may also help to alleviate rheumatic aches and pains.

* Water
is essential for hydration of the skin, muscles, circulation, and all organs in the body. Drink at least 8 glasses of water every day in order to remain healthy. Water helps us to get rid of the toxins and unwanted waste materials from your body.

Source :
Can what you eat help you age gracefully?
The Anti-Aging Diet

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Have you hugged anyone today

A hug is a form of physical intimacy that usually involves closing or holding the arms around another person or group of persons. The hug is one of the most common human signs of love and affection, along with kissing. Unlike some other forms of physical intimacy, it is practiced publicly and privately without stigma in many nations, religions and cultures, within families, and also across age and gender lines. (wikipwedia)

Sometimes, hugs are a romantic exchange. Hugs may also be exchanged as a sign of support and comfort. A hug can be a demonstration of affection and emotional warmth, sometimes arising out of joy or happiness at meeting someone.

A team from the University of North Carolina studied the effects of hugging on both partners in 38 couples. The study showed hugs increased levels of oxytocin, a "bonding" hormone, and reduced blood pressure - which cuts the risk of heart disease. Dr Charmaine Griffiths, spokesperson for the British Heart Foundation, said: "Scientists are increasingly interested in the possibility that positive emotions can be good for your health. (BBC News)


Just out from this research, we all know Reaching out and touching someone, and holding him tight—is a way of saying you care. Its effects are immediate: for both, the hugger and the person being hugged, feel good.

Touch is an important component of attachment as it creates bonds between two individuals, hugging is simply a natural expression of showing that you love and care. . It transfers energy, and gives the person hugged an emotional boost. It is also a form of communication. It can say things you don't have words for. The nicest thing about a hug is that you usually can't give one without getting one.

Hugging brings people closer to each other. If your relationship with somebody is not working, try hugging him 20 times a day and there will be a significant difference.
Have you hugged anyone today? Do it, its inflation proof and non taxable absolutely free hahaha

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Men- Know what women want

What do women want? This question troubles many men. If they like a woman, how to attract her and how to keep that love alive for long.
Men believe women primarily want them for security reasons, and women believe men primarily want them for sex or to be caregivers. This explains why both men and women often feel used in relationship. Below are a few fact that women want from men, that can prove how care and meaningful the relationship that they have.

# women want to treat delicately
Treat them gently and be there whenever she needs any help. Show her that she is invaluable for you in all the possible ways. Let her feel good about herself whenever she is with you.

# women want to be heard.
They simply want to be listened to and responded to in a reasonable manner. They do not want to be shut down, ignored or placated.


# Women want men who can communicate and stay in the conversation.
Women always want to communicate about feelings, needs, wants, hopes, dreams, problems, solutions, and all other topics that make a relationship and life work. Women want men can respond when they talk, not just heard and go away without any respond

# Women want men who are introspective and aware.
Women want men to know their own minds and hearts. They want men who know what makes them happy or sad. They want men who are aware of what they want and understand what motivates their action or inaction.

# Women want men who are committed to the relationship – exclusively and for the long haul.
Women want men who will stay in the relationship when the going gets tough, and will find any ways to help the relationship work

# Women want a man who cares deeply about her as well as his needs.
They want a man who can recognize and acknowledge what she wants and address it, a man who can say no or yes, depending on which one is more true to his heart.

# Women want fun, playful, creative, passionate men.
They want a man of creative, intellectual, playful substance. They want a man who knows how to play, who is not afraid to make a fool of himself, who lives his passions.

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Thanks to my Cyber friend

I want to share my personal story about a cyber friend.

Friend..I feel you are special to me
We have different nationality or not live in the same country, but sometimes feel so close

Even i can't talk everyday but I still can feel how care you are (even sometime I don't believe you too haha)
When I got problem in my life, I did unfair thing to you, sometimes blame you for no reason.
Angry with you.. and told "I HATE YOU" , not reply your message


But you only sent me some kind words and told me "Can I call you now, and u can share your problem with me," and said "I never hate you"
I know I am not your most important person in your life, you have soul mate in your side, but thanks anyway you are so kind to me. Thanks for not forget to sent message in your busy time or while in your trip around the world ( I know you are busy with her too )

I don't know how long I can have this nice friendship relationship, but really thanks you always can make me smile. And always told me to be a smart girl.

For all friend, who I met online thank for your kind friendship too. You are all precious too me.

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Give a time to heal your broken heart

This song sounds perfect for broken heart
Breakdown-Mariah Carrey.

Break break down,Steady breakin me on down 3x

You called yesterday to basically say That you care for me,
But that you're just not in love Immediately I pretended
To be feeling similarly And led you to believe it was okay
To just walk away from the one thing That's unyielding and sacred to me

Chorus:

Well I guess I'm trying to be Nonchalant about it
And I'm going to extremes to prove I'm fine without you
But in reality I'm slowly losing my mind Underneath a disguise of a smile
Gradually I'm dying inside Friends ask me how I feel
And I lie convincingly Cause I don't want to reveal
The fact that I'm suffering So I wear my disguise
Till I go home at night And turn down all the lights
And then I break down and cry


So what do you do When somebody you're so devoted to
Suddenly just stops loving you And it seems they haven't got a clue
Of the pain that rejection is putting you through
Do you cling to your pride And sing "I will survive"
Do you lash out and say "How dare you leave this way?"
Do you hold on in vain as they just slip away

chorus
It'll break you down only if you let it
Everday crazy situations rocking my mind
Tryin' to break me down But I won't let it
Forget it ( forget it )

I be feelin' like you bringing me down Taking me around
stressin' me out I think i better go and get out
And let me release some stress ( stress )

Don't ever wanna feel no pain ( pain )
Hoping for the sun But it looks like rain ( rain, rain, rain )
Lord, I just wanna maintain

Yeah, I can feel pressures ya'll But never the less
won't fall It's over, it's ending here ( here )


I like this song so much, its describe when we broken heart and give support to out from that. Love is about nature, we cant push love to come over us and cant push to stay too. We will feel so happy when it comes to us, you will see everything more wonderful than before.

But when everything change.. love lost and only care left, u will feel so hurt. Asking many time why it can happen, but never find the answer. Smile just disappear from your face, you feel your heart bleeding and just want to go somewhere no body knows and cry.

Ok you can release your pain, but u must realize love and hurt are the same. It can come and go without notice. Just give your heart time and room to heal your pain, and then start to smile again

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Think before you speak

Our spoken words originate from our thought, please aware when you speak, it not only affect ourselves but people around us. Another danger about words that one it is out of our mouth, it can never be taken back and it will have an effect. Most of us unaware to positive or negative effect of this words, which has ripple effect on ourselves and those around us. Just wonder if your negative words can hurt somebody else for long time even you have ask for forgiveness.

Everything we say produces an effect and everything you say to someone else also produce some kind off effect in that person. When we speak unkindly we are actually creating a negative vibration within us thus harming the harmony of our body, mind and spirit and destroying our self esteem.


At all times we should think and analyse before we speak, because whatever unpleasant words we say about another it is actually a reflection of ourselves. Every individual should learn not to follow their whims and start doing or saying something that comes into their mind. Exercise our capability to control, be conscious, and apply caution on what we want to speak.

Guide to positive words and thought
* avoid gossip
* stay away from complaining others
* Look at the good quality and strength of others
* do not follow unpleasant emotion to control you
* before you speak ask yourself, are you ok, if others told you like that
* try to take control your word rather than words control you.

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Find the best way for hair removal

Have you ever go to drug store and looking for hair removal product, or just buy razor?? I ever do both, even i tried to buy the expensive one, but I still got problem with that. My skin got rash, so itchy. Oh its a hard way to make my body free from hair.

Knowing hair types in our body. First, vellus hair is soft, fine, and short. Most women have vellus hair on their chest, back, and face. And second terminal hair is coarser, darker, and longer than vellus hair. It's the type of hair that grows on your head. Around puberty, terminal hair starts to grow in the armpits and pubic region.

What the best way for hair removal
1. Shaving
Using a razor, a person removes the tip of the hair shaft that has grown out through the skin.
Tips: You'll get a closer shave if you shave in the shower after your skin has been softened by warm water. Go slowly, pulling looser areas of skin taut before running the razor over them. Change razors often to avoid nicks. Using shaving cream may also help protect sensitive skin, like the skin around the genitals

2. Plucking
Using tweezers, a person stretches the skin tightly, grips the hair close to the root, and pulls it out.
Plucking can be painful. If the hair breaks off below the skin, a person may get an ingrown hair. After plucking, you may notice temporary red bumps because the hair follicle is swollen and irritated

3. Depilatories
A depilatory is a cream or liquid that removes hair from the skin's surface. They work by reacting with the protein structure of the hair, so the hair dissolves and can be washed or wiped away.
If you have sensitive skin, you might have an allergic reaction to the chemicals in the depilatory, which may cause a rash or inflammation.

4. Waxing
A sticky wax is spread on the area of skin where the unwanted hair is growing. A cloth strip is then applied over the wax and quickly pulled off, taking the hair root and dead skin cells with it.
Teens who use acne medications such as tretinoin and isotretinoin may want to skip waxing because those medicines make the skin more sensitive. People with moles or skin irritation from sunburn should also avoid waxing

5.Electrolysis
Over a series of several appointments, a professional electrologist inserts a needle into the follicle and sends an electric current through the hair root, killing it. A small area such as the upper lip may take a total of 4 to 10 hours and a larger area such as the bikini line may take 8 to 16 hours.

6.Laser Hair Removal
A laser is directed through the skin to the hair follicle, where it stops growth. It works best on light-skinned people with dark hair because the melanin (colored pigment) in the hair absorbs more of the light, making treatment more effective.

and maybe still many more way... choose the best way for your skin and your money too hahaha. enjoy your day.

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Are you bored in life??

Are you bored with your work, your relationship or your life? Boredom is a complex process. There are lots of reasons that one might be bored. The most common one is that you have no idea what to do. But other reasons might be you feel lazy or tired and just don't want to do the things that are available for you to do. Maybe you have ideas of things to do, and aren't feeling lazy, but you don't feel you can do the things you want to do.

There are people who overcome boredom by going shopping, changing partners, eating too much or indulging in any other activity that would bring some excitement for the moment. But i think it cant work. So try to find a best way to help you out from this problem.


Shift your mindset
Create curiosity and ask yourself some hard questions. What makes you feel the way you do? What leads you to the feeling? Is there something or someone that is triggering your state of mind? What can you do to change it?
You have to instruct your mind to change your pattern of thinking. Your thoughts affect your behavior. By changing your mind about the meaning of your emotion and experiences, you will generate a different attitude.

Doing different activity and find something interest
Doing things that interest you is never boring. Changing your body movements by taking actions will change your emotions and mental state. You can interrupt your laid back attitude by exercising, dancing or getting yourself involved in activities that raise your energy level.

Fire up your imagination.
Create mental images to stimulate your thoughts. Visualize where you want to be and what you want to become. Use your imagination or your dreaming to experience a situation that you want to happen in your life.

Talk to other people.
If you have a good person to talk to, the event can pass by pretty quick. You might also learn something.

Learn to enjoy and appreciate your relationship with yourself.
Sometimes you think you feel alone, no one care about you. Its ok, take your time to understand your self better. talking to yourself, describes your thought. Thinking about your way to dealing with people and anything around you. Express your creativity, in music, drawing or writing. just find more joy from that.

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Warehouse sales anyone??

Arrgghh... I always become crazy if I saw warehouse sales announcement. Sometimes the price was worth enough for us to spend money right now. Ok check it out credit card, still have enough balance... and go..
And today .... HP & Intel Biggest Warehouse Sale 20-22 March must be there cause i need to buy a new laptop, and they offered
"If there’s ever been a time to splurge for a new computer, its now. The snazziest notebooks, stylish desktop PCs, powerful workstationsa and a host of other cool peripherals could be yours for not just low or lower prices but the lowest prices! Don’t miss out on the best deals in town!"

for today 20 Mar : Exclusive for HP Employees, Citibank & Maybank Cardholders, Media & Students Only (Please bring your Proof of Verification to Enjoy this Privilege)

huaa still so many warehouse sales, will wait another warehouse sales...
21 March to 5 April 2009 HSL Warehouse Sale Discount Up to 90%
26 to 28 March 2009 Mattel Warehouse Clearance
20 to 22 & 27 to 29 March 2009 Aussino Warehouse Sale Clearance Up to 70% Off
2 to 5 Apr 2009 GMC IT Warehouse Fair
and still many more.. visit http://www.shoppingnsales.com/

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Develop self control

Self-control is a set of behaviors which: accepts the reality that the only thing in life which you can successfully change and control is yourself. Self-control keeps negative traits such as self-destruction and it also helps a person become the master of his own life, and having the skill of self-control restores and maintains balance. That one of the way to improve your personal growth.


Developing self control
1) First you need to identify in what areas of your life you need to gain more self-control.
Many people have problems with eating right, shopping without overspending, not working too hard or working too hard, excessive drinking, smoking and gambling.

2) Try identifying the emotions that lack control, such as anger, dissatisfaction, unhappiness, resentment,tendency to act without thinking first, the tendency to lose faith in one's ability and character and lastly pleasure or fear.

3) Identify the thoughts and beliefs that push you to behave in uncontrolled manner.

4) Several times a day, especially when you need to display self control,or whenever you feel like losing control and giving in to your impulses, say to yourself, "I can control myself, I am a grown person and I know how to handle myself." Or you can say, "I am the master of my life. No one manipulates my thoughts and emotions but myself."

5) Visualize yourself acting with self-control and self-restraint. Take one of the instances where you usually act with lack of control, and visualize that you are acting calmly and with self-mastery.

Remember, self-control is all about not letting your fears and addictions from taking over your life. It is about you taking control over the negative feelings present in your life. Having self-control means you will enjoy better relationships with people, do better in your work and other endeavors, and you will learn the things that need your attention and emotions from those that should be ignored and left alone. Developing and strengthening your self-control will make you a better person that you are today.

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Tear

I saw the sky, its not blue like before
I saw the tree, only a little leaves on there
I saw the sand in the beach, full with mud

I feel the wind still blow like before
the sun still shinning everyday
Day n night still the same


but why I feel I'm losing something
I saw the world only black n white with no oher colors
I only can taste sour not sweet

You already change now
Seem you only remember me when you lonely and need me
You ignore my feeling, not like before

I wish I only dream
When I wake up all are different
I wish I only dream
and u will come back to me like before

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Love Him but Hate Him

Do you ever have this feeling. You really love a man but hate him in the same time. Let me share a story about my friend.
" I ever have this feeling. When I meet him, its looks all perfect, he is so care with me. All the times i feel that he need me more and more. We share our story, laugh a lot, and he always give me support for all my problem. Sending me so much poems, listening music together, want to know what I like and dislike. Seems all perfect in our limitation.

I felt my day was bright that time, he always give me a reason to love, live and laugh. Every time I asked him that, "Do you love me." He replied fast "Yes, my dear." But now, I felt he already changed. We only have a little time to talk, and he will come only when he really need me. Otherwise he will stay away. If I asked something, he only replied with a short word. What must I do, I still love him, but he treat me bad. I never know what he feel to me, coz when I ask him if he don't love me anymore, let me now. But he never respond my question.

I really love him, and I feel I can't life without him on it. Even I always suffered in this relationship, but better for me to stay like that, love and hate in the same time."

Its very common problem in women life, love so absurd, and make we blind. But please think it carefully, "Do you really want to life like that? Can you face it all the time?"
Make your decision carefully, please You NEED TO BE HAPPY...

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Happy to be a stay at home mommy

Sometimes we must face a hard decision, like to be a stay at home moms, leaving the workforce office, friends behind. As you make the transition, learn to accept that there is no pre-determined deadline to adapt to being at home, nor is there a blueprint for how you should feel. Recognize that if you don't enjoy being home 24/7 it doesn't mean you're a bad mother or that you don't love your child "enough." Instead, work with your partner to make realistic adjustments in your lives so you'll feel more authentic to your identity and more fulfilled in your new role. In the process you'll give your children, your spouse and yourself one of the finest gifts – your contentment.


Being a stay at home mom is not a bad thing. Stop feeling like our lives may be lacking something if we are not immersed in a career- what about being immersed in our children and being immersed in helping shape them into productive. Our kids need us, not a daycare.You can find fulfillment in meeting your families needs, having time for hobbies, being there for your kids etc. Society has taught us we "need" something beyond our home and family to make us complete.

But I also believe that stay-at-home parents need to continue to challenge themselves with activities that are outside the realm of their jobs as Moms. It's important for stay-at-home parents to have something that is theirs alone to cultivate and keep their minds sharp while helping them remember that they can continue to grow as people (not just as parents)and be as multi-facted as they'd like to be. ENJOY YOUR TIMES MOMS

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Being a beautiful woman.. its dream

There are two kinds of woman : those who believes that beauty come within and those who are believe that beauty is a matter off atrraction- body, clothing, style make up and accessories that others see when they look at us. But you knows nowadays some people think what we are from the first sight, so must be a charming person, then you can get a good appreciation from others.

But please dont stuck only with your body. Never compare ourselves with a model or an artist that you saw in Magazine. This model of the female body is pure fantasy. Our bodies go through changes every day and every year as we grow as women. Some of these changes are related to our cycles, and others are unpredictable. This model of the female body is pure fantasy. Our bodies go through changes every day and every year as we grow as women. Some of these changes are related to our cycles, and others are unpredictable.

Be confidence, is the most important for being a beutiful woman. No need to wear some expensife clothes, make-up or accessories are all the magazine offer to woman as a lifestyle, just choose the one you feel comfortable with, then come o the mirror... see you are beautiful.

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